Divorced people say why they regret divorce

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“I haven’t divorced yet. I wasn’t happy and left after over a decade of marriage. There were good years, there were bad years. I moved out and started seeing other men right away. I waited and eventually found someone I cared about. Meanwhile She has been delaying the divorce proceedings over and over again these days and she wants me back and reminds me everything from wanting to change to accepting some ground rules that really need to change my friend but sometimes I sit and wonder if it is possible to fix it and if not Giving my ex a second chance is one thing Bad on my part.

“On the one hand, I love my girlfriend. On the other hand, I miss my family. And… I imagine that if we put in enough effort, maybe I can have just as much fun with my ex as I do with my girlfriend.. The problem is that every time I see her I feel uncomfortable. I don’t know if it’s about our breakup, or personal shame, or knowing I’m keeping my girlfriend away from her, or what.”

—u/wtf7778