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China has millions of single men


Helen Bushby

Cultural reporter at the Sheffield Documentary Festival

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Li (left) is a photo of Hao, during the week to attract women during the week

It would be underestimated to say that the Chinese women are overcome.

More than 30 million more men than women, one of the most popular countries in the world has a manner of unattended men.

Votes are very well stacked when you find a date against them, even more wife – many feel pressured.

To be important, it is even harder if you are lower class below, according to Chinese dating coach, with more than 3,000 customers.

“Most are staff classes – they are the least found on wives,” he noted.

This first hand this Violet documentary in Feng, dating game, Hao and its three customers see during his week during his week.

All of them have been poor rural origins and has been a part of the generation after the 90s in China, many parents left with other resorts to family members, to go and work.

This generation is now adults, and they go to cities to try to find his wife and try to push their situation.

Feng, based on the US, wants to highlight his film on his younger generation in his hometown.

“When the division of the genre is so extreme, especially in China, how we can slap a gap and create conversation,” BBC said.

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(LR) Dating games Hao took Wu, Li and Zhou clothes, chooses for them

Hao’s three customers – Li, 24, Wu, 27 and Zhou, 36 – They are fighting the descendant of China’s children’s policy.

The government was founded in 1980 when the population approached a billion billion, having too many people into politics that he would have an impact on the economic growth of the country.

But led to a traditional priority for male children Numerous girls are abandoned, orphans, selective sexes of selective abortions or female infanticid cases. The result is a tremendous mismatch of the present genre.

China is so worried that today he ended the policy in 2016 with birth rate and aging population.

Wu, Li and Zhou want to help find the girlfriend.

He is someone who wants to be, he has already managed to find his wife, Wen, Wen, too, is also a dating coach.

Men hao gives striking makeovers and hair while they tell women to attract “techniques” to attract women, both online and personally.

But while everyone tries their best, it’s not going to plan everything.

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Hao’s dating techniques, “push and pull”, where men give a compliment, say something is offensive and then make a joke

Hao builds an online image for each man, but it describes some limits on how it describes it, and thinks it’s “fake”.

“I feel guilty of deceiving others,” he stated, clearly uncomfortable, being represented as someone who is in reality.

It believes that Feng is a broader problem.

“It’s a great story of Chinese, but we’re all fighting in this digital landscape and fighting the price of being fake in the digital world and then the cost we need to be real and honest.” He explains.

Hao can be Chinese “one of the most popular dating coaches”, but his wife questions some of his methods.

Undetegred, he sends his protests to discover women, wet with deodorant, declaring: “Showtime!”

Men need to approach the potential date in the busy night shopping center of Chongqing, one of the largest cities in the world.

It is almost painful to see women while asking for the messaging application through the Messaging application.

But it teaches them to enter the internal confidence, and that so far, the sight has been hidden.

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Men try to meet women in China’s hawks

Dr. Zheng Mu, from the Singapore National University Department of Sociology, tells the BBC How to marry pressures can affect single men.

“In China, marriage or ability, financially and socially, to marry like a primary bread, still expected from men,” he explains.

“As a result, the difficulty considered to be married can be a social stigma, indicating that they are not able to be able and worth the role.”

Zhou is despairing how many dates cost him, such as paying games, dinner and new clothes.

I only do “$ 600 (£ 440) per month,” he pointed out that a date costs about $ 300.

“Finally, our fate is determined by society,” he added, “he must decide to build my situation.”

It explains the Feng: “This is a generation that is defined as many of these sorbuses.

“They are seen at the bottom of society, the workers classes, so it is another indicator that can be successful in getting married.”

The only way for men in China is “breaking the social class” to make an army, and we see a large recruitment record in the film.

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Hao photos of men with beautiful dogs, saying images seem attractive to women

The film does not explore what kind of gay man in China.

The Feng agrees that Chines Society does not support gay men, while Muk adds: “China, heteronormativity largely.

“So men expect to marry women to meet the rules … Becoming a parent to help the nuclear family and develop in larger families.”

Technologies also appear in the documentary because of the growing popularity of virtual boyfriends, more than 10 million women play more than 10 million women playing online dating games.

We also get to see a virtual boyfriend – understands, undeniable and unhappy.

A woman’s real-life dating costs “time, money, emotional energy – it’s so tiring.”

Adds “virtual men different”, they have great temperaments, they are perfect. ”

Muk sees the “significant social problem” in China, “a long-time, a long-time, working culture and competitive environment”, along with gender role expectations. “

“Virtual boyfriends who play better with women’s ideals can be a way of filling their romantic imaginations.”

The Feng adds: “It is a universal thing mentioned that virtual boyfriends have felt men in China emotionally stable.”

Its film enters the male origin, including frequent relationships with parents and families.

“These men come from this, and there is so much negative pressure on them – how would you expect to be emotionally stable?”

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Violet has become a “challenging of my Bias challenges, aimed at his Emmy designated documentary, hidden letters in 2022, women

Reuters reported that last year “Long-term single-term lifestyles are spreading in China.”

“I’m worried about what we connect together today, especially a younger generation,” Feng says.

“Dating is just a device to talk to us. But I’m very worried.

“My film is how we live in this epidemic of loneliness, trying to find connections to each other.”

At the end of the documentary, with many comedic times, we see that it has been a realistic journey of self-discovery for all men, including Hao.

“I think it’s about the warmth as they are finding each other, knowing that all knowing the collective crisis that is being confronted,” says Feng.

“It’s more about them to find himself and know more about someone’s shoulders, saying,” I see you, and there’s a way. “”

Daily Allan Hunter says The film “Feng maintains humanity to know and better understand each individual,” adding “,” It’s true to yourself. “

Hao concluded: “After you like yourself, it’s easier to get the girls like.”

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