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“I’ve forgiven two different partners. The first partner was abusive and controlling and was threatening to attempt suicide. So, it was out of a combination of fear to He and to for him. His behavior escalated and became more frequent, including cheating. In the end, he left me for a girl who he claimed was just a friend, but apparently, she was just as controlling as him. “He tried to get back to me (according to a mutual friend), but I got over it and blocked his number and social media.”
“I forgave the second partner because I had no concrete proof. He lied and said he had just talked to a friend about his feelings for her when he was single, but nothing more (apparently another friend threatened to walk out on him if he didn’t tell).
He seemed to be backing down, and I could tell there was something worse he wasn’t saying (especially when he deleted his Facebook profile). He apparently deleted it so he wouldn’t “sin again”, which seemed extreme when I was just trying to figure out why he felt guilty and such a bad person.
He was actually messaging a group of girls who would try to talk dirty and shoot him, as I later found out. A group of our friends knew but didn’t tell me because they thought I was great for him and made his life so much better.
Apparently, it doesn’t matter he It was bad for I And make my life worse. Also, not having Facebook did not prevent him from cheating while traveling for work. “I should have known that I had to end things when all the suspicious things happened, and not just because I didn’t have proof.”
