Why people who did not possess their cultivated children?

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“I am one of the parents decided to stay away from not communicating with my adult married daughter. My relationship with my daughter is always rocky. She is 33 years old and has a beautiful child. This adds to my sorrow and pain in making such a decision.”

“Our family life was full of issues. She had a father with alcohol addiction that was out of her life for most of her youth. She fought financially because I am a teacher, and things were not always easy. I always did so for her clothes, shelter, education, and many other things when I can.

Its basic case is that I do not show her unconditional love. You feel that I am not my mother, I must be. I must have long conversations about how I don’t like or respond enough. We argue, I have become defensive, things go out of control, raise our voices, and raise experience like a road map every time.

This last battle was different, because she stated, “I want you to be part of miles” (her child) and my life, but I am not fine with some things that I said last night. “We have argued the night before, starting with a text I sent to me.

Something inside me was clicked when I mentioned Miles. What is going on between my daughter and I am continuing for 20 years, and stopping her. It happened that Miles would hear this between us and what she will say to her husband throughout his life. He will always have to ask whether his grandmother is really as he describes his mother or whether he feels when I am with him.

After that, I decided that I didn’t want to test this three -month -old child, this. I prefer to be the medium grandmother who does not know that it is arrested in the middle. At the moment I mentioned in the argument, I thought, “will become the neck.” I cannot be part of it. Also, I can no longer call me all these harsh things, mean things and constantly defend myself. It was just an endless end. So I said that I do not want more contact and comment.

I have removed it from all social media, including all our participating friends. I cut off my rituals. Although I feel pain, sadness and tear, I still believe for that child, it is the only option that I had. I must now find peace with my decision and live what life left, hoping to do the right thing. “

–Paula pQuora